Im sure we can all relate to a time when a boyfriend has said things that are either really hurtful and totally out of order. I think once we understand why guys do such things, it’s a lot easier to deal with. For instance, if a guy comments on your dress sense in a negative way, dump him! In fact put him in a wheely bin, not the recycling one! If a guy comments on your make up routine or anything about your appears in a negative way, dump him! If they verbally abuse you, make you feel bad about yourself or try to make you feel like you’re a fruit and nut job, dump them! These are some reasons why guys put you down…
-They put you down to make themselves feel better and you don’t want to be with someone like this
-They put you down as they’re insecure and need to feel like they are in control at all times
-They are a control freak
-An ex may verbally abuse you too, this is because they don’t like being rejected and they will verbally abuse you due to their own insecurity
-They put you down if they see that you’re getting attention from other men. Again this is a control thing
-They put you down to try and isolate you from anyone else and keep you to themselves
-If you recognise any of these traits in a dude your seeing then you need to dump them. There is much more decent calibre in the world. Fear not! Karma will get them!